Ariel's profile踩着我们的脚印PhotosBlogLists Tools Help

Blog


    October 22

    与命运抗争

    我到底能让父母多伤心。
    真不知道这个世界的人是怎么了,疯狂的买房子。网上说中国十大压力最大的城市,说的几乎都是房子多贵多贵,年轻男人们都买不起,都娶不上老婆。
    都知道房价贵,还跟着凑什么热闹啊。现在的女人也都现实的很,没有房子连拖都不和你拍。其实这也都不怪我们这些个年轻的男的女的。这是传统啊,
    老子一辈的为儿子奋斗,耗尽毕生积蓄给儿子准备一套房子,娶老婆,好让儿子继续为老婆奋斗。这样看来,便宜了有女儿的,至少家里没有什么负担。
    真不知道为什么,大家还都乐意自讨苦吃,愿意生儿子。
    我算是给我家丢尽了人,找了个外地的。这个外地还真够远的。没钱、没基础、没房子、没车子,连给承诺都给不了我父母,这让我爹娘怎么给我们老家
    的父老乡亲交代呢。他们接受不了,也看不懂,我们所谓的前卫的思想。其实也不是什么前卫,只是没有十年计划,没有大房子,小车子,胖儿子计划。
    爹娘是怕我吃苦啊,这没有个稳定的窝,我的下半生可怎么办啊。其实,我们只是不想守着一个工作呆一辈子,只是想在安定之前,好好看看这个世界,
    去旅行。三十多岁,结婚生儿子也不晚啊,成熟了,心定了,不才是应该谈婚论嫁吗。自己对自己的人生负责,为什么要把责任强加在父母身上呢。我替
    难过着,也替自己难过着。如果对他们妥协,那也是对自己妥协。
     

    Comments (3)

    Please wait...
    Sorry, the comment you entered is too long. Please shorten it.
    You didn't enter anything. Please try again.
    Sorry, we can't add your comment right now. Please try again later.
    To add a comment, you need permission from your parent. Ask for permission
    Your parent has turned off comments.
    Sorry, we can't delete your comment right now. Please try again later.
    You've exceeded the maximum number of comments that can be left in one day. Please try again in 24 hours.
    Your account has had the ability to leave comments disabled because our systems indicate that you may be spamming other users. If you believe that your account has been disabled in error please contact Windows Live support.
    Complete the security check below to finish leaving your comment.
    The characters you type in the security check must match the characters in the picture or audio.

    To add a comment, sign in with your Windows Live ID (if you use Hotmail, Messenger, or Xbox LIVE, you have a Windows Live ID). Sign in


    Don't have a Windows Live ID? Sign up

    羿 罗wrote:
    世界永远不会为任何人改变,我们老是想走出圈子,其实我们就是圈子的一部分
    Nov. 3
    yuh zhangwrote:
    舍得,有舍弃的必定会有得到的。你觉得这些付出如果都是值得的,他,值得你这样去做,而你又有青春又能力去执行,那还是很美好的。挺羡慕你的!
    Oct. 25
    說得好啊
    Oct. 23

    Trackbacks

    The trackback URL for this entry is:
    http://chrisina731.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!1515F65866A38995!2348.trak
    Weblogs that reference this entry
    • None